This morning...

We all woke up with better attitudes.

All four of us. 

I really think our problem this time is that I underestimated how our kids are affected by the change in dynamics at our house. I also think they forgot that I am a force to be reckoned with :) Normally when Tom is gone for only a few days they don't think much of it. They ask when he is coming home, and that is that.

Hopefully now we are all on the same page and we can move on....

Comments

[aj]

I am glad today is off to a good start. As part of the PBIS system in school we talk about re-teaching expectations when behavior starts to become poor. Kids (and adults) need a reminder every now and then of what is acceptable and unacceptable. Even when things are going well it's good to touch base with what we expect from the students/ children. I think you should have a family special night- no phone, no friends, just the four of you doing something together. Kasey can choose the activity one week,Jake the next, Hannah the third and you on the fourth. When Tom returns he can help plan the activity with you. It may sound hokey, but it is good to be a unit. Take care and we'll talk soon- aj